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</o:shapelayout></xml><![endif]--></head><body lang=EN-AU link=blue vlink=purple><div class=WordSection1><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Hello John;<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Great question, and the answer, as the kids from Sunday school all know – is Jesus. That said, the answer – apart from Paul’s bucket list, and Peter’s, and John’s etc – has I suspect at least three key ingredients – others can no doubt find more:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoListParagraph style='text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><span style='color:#1F497D'><span style='mso-list:Ignore'>1.<span style='font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'> </span></span></span><![endif]><b><span style='color:#1F497D'>Context</span></b><span style='color:#1F497D'>. Paul’s context in Asia Minor and Rome under threat of death is not the Solomon Islands in 2013, or an affluent, western cultured Australia facing an election in 2013. My context is not the same as that of my parents, nor my daughter’s, nor my grandchildren, nor yet (I’m look forward to) my great grandchildren. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoListParagraph style='text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><span style='color:#1F497D'><span style='mso-list:Ignore'>2.<span style='font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'> </span></span></span><![endif]><b><span style='color:#1F497D'>Core human issues</span></b><span style='color:#1F497D'> – I like Crabb’s security, significance and belonging triad; I think he drew from Glasser and a few others. Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, while not my favourite, probably plays here. Core human drivers shape core human desires – hence “bucket lists” can be kingdom oriented, or self-oriented. Or both </span><span style='font-family:Wingdings;color:#1F497D'>J</span><span style='color:#1F497D'>.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoListParagraph style='text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><span style='color:#1F497D'><span style='mso-list:Ignore'>3.<span style='font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'> </span></span></span><![endif]><b><span style='color:#1F497D'>Personal style</span></b><span style='color:#1F497D'> – shaped as it is by family of origin, personal history etc. You will remember the personal time-line stuff we did years ago – you will always be you. But that’s the you God has created, called, redeemed and equipped.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>So what should a bucket list look like?<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoListParagraph style='text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2'><![if !supportLists]><span style='color:#1F497D'><span style='mso-list:Ignore'>1.<span style='font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'> </span></span></span><![endif]><span style='color:#1F497D'>What has God called you to do in your context today?<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoListParagraph style='text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2'><![if !supportLists]><span style='color:#1F497D'><span style='mso-list:Ignore'>2.<span style='font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'> </span></span></span><![endif]><span style='color:#1F497D'>Where is God calling you to grow, to step into a new kingdom opportunity?<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoListParagraph style='text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2'><![if !supportLists]><span style='color:#1F497D'><span style='mso-list:Ignore'>3.<span style='font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'> </span></span></span><![endif]><span style='color:#1F497D'>What is the unique contribution that you, and only you – can make? <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>That will probably give you lots of fun, challenging, and kingdom perspectives to play with. Enjoy </span><span style='font-family:Wingdings;color:#1F497D'>J</span><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Shalom<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>JR<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><div><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:#00B050;mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>John N. Rietveld</span></b><span style='color:#00B050;mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>, PhD, Certificate IV Training and Assessment, Diploma in Workplace & Business Coaching<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:16.0pt;color:#1F497D;mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>Eastside Training Community<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:16.0pt;color:#1F497D;mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>112 Main Street Lilydale VIC 3140<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:16.0pt;color:#1F497D;mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>PO Box 62 Lilydale VIC 3140<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='color:red;mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>Phone: (03) 9739 6001<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='color:red;mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>Mobile: 0409 255 172<o:p></o:p></span></b></p></div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><div><div style='border:none;border-top:solid #B5C4DF 1.0pt;padding:3.0pt 0cm 0cm 0cm'><p class=MsoNormal><b><span lang=EN-US style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif";mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'>From:</span></b><span lang=EN-US style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif";mso-fareast-language:EN-AU'> mins-bounces@crca.org.au [mailto:mins-bounces@crca.org.au] <b>On Behalf Of </b>John de Boer<br><b>Sent:</b> Monday, 17 June 2013 5:59 PM<br><b>To:</b> mins@crca.org.au<br><b>Subject:</b> [Mins] Ideas for a bucket list<o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>Dear brothers<o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>Greetings to one and all. May I ask for your help please? Jono and I are working on a sermon series we have called “Questions Worth Asking”; the questions have come from the congregation and cover a wide range of topics, as you would expect. I’m presently looking at the issue: “What does (should) our bucket list look like?” and wonder if anyone could give some input or point me in a helpful direction. Thanks for your consideration. God’s blessings.<o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>John.<o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p></div></body></html>